Friday, December 18, 2009

Restaurant Etiquette

I've been trying to be a more positive person lately. I think that in my past I've been fairly positive, but for some reason, be it the stress, or work, or whatever, I've been a little less forgiving and slightly more judgmental of other people.

Like I said I'm working on being better, but when one is a server at a restaurant certain people make it... difficult to be positive. For example, I've tried to be more understanding of small tippers lately. I know that times are hard for a lot of people and that leaving a big tip might seem like an avoidable cost. I understand that. (Although we in the restaurant business have a saying: "If you can't afford to tip, you can't afford to eat out.") But some people just really get my goat. Last night I was working at Texas Roadhouse and I had a party of four come in. They were nice people, apparently wealthy, and they were ordering big. (Servers love it when people order big.) In the end their total came to around $90.00. So, fifteen percent on ninety bucks is about $13.00 but they seemed generous so maybe twenty percent, $18.00. What did they actually leave me in the end? Zero dollars. So I'm trying to be positive and not hate them without knowing them. And I know that there are a lot of factors that could've gone into their decision. Maybe the guy paying picked up the check (to be nice) before he knew how much it was and he didn't have enough to cover a tip. Or maybe they thought I had already added gratuity, or maybe they thought I was making an hourly wage so I didn't need a tip or something. So as I was thinking about slashing their tires I thought of all the things that we as servers wished that our tables knew. So, I'm going to make that list right now.

Things that your server wants you to know about.

1. In many states servers get paid less than minimum wage.
For example. In Utah most servers only get paid $2.13 an hour by the restaurant. We make ALL of our money from tips. The paycheck I picked up from the restaurant yesterday for two weeks of work was $13.00. I kid you not.
2. Many restaurants have a 'tip share' system.
What is a tip share? Many restaurants require the server to 'share' a percentage of his/her gross sales. For example if I sold $1,000.00 worth of food and my tip share was a three percent. At the end of the night I have to 'share' $30.00 out of my pocket with the buss boys, the hostess', and the kitchen. Now lets look at this $90.00 ticket I had last night. Three percent of ninety is $2.70. That means I actually lost money on that table. When you 'stiff' your server, the person who just got all of your refills, brought you your food, and six baskets of rolls, just lost money.
3. Our tables are out money makers.
Many restaurants today have three table sections. This means that I can only make as much money as those three tables produce. What's my point? Please don't linger at your table long after you've paid. The longer you're there the longer I'm not making any money... that said It's totally fine if you want to stay and chat with your friends. As long as you make up for it in the tip.
4. You are not our only responsibility, and we only have two hands.
Please be patient with us. If we don't bring your refill back in ten seconds it's probably because we're busy doing something else. We may have other tables to greet, food to run, floors to sweep, garbages to take out, glasses to restock, ice to refill, specialty drinks to make etc... the job description of a server includes many more tasks than just waiting on you. We're trying our hardest to please you. I promise.
5. It's not our fault your food is: burnt, cold, late, wrong, gross, etc...
We didn't make it. We put the order in, and when it was done we brought it to you. We will certainly do what our part to make it better, but don't take it out on us if something is wrong. On that note, it's also not our fault that you had to wait an hour, or if you didn't get a seat where you can see the TV.
6. Fifteen percent should be the minimum.
We as servers understand that times are hard. Because times are hard for us as well. For some reason many people seem to think that a fifteen percent tip should only go to reward excellent service. Not so. Fifteen percent should be for any service. If you feel like your server was a good one, and you can afford it, tip them more. But please, if you can't afford to tip fifteen percent then don't order the Big Steaks and the expensive combos. Because we have to pay three percent of your bill. When ordering, and when tipping, keep in mind that three percent of that bill comes out of your servers pocket.
7. We Appreciate a Thank You but...
There is a phrase that is dreaded in the restaurant world known as "the verbal tip". It comes when the table is so gracious and kind and full of compliments to the server that the server is certain that they will be tipped well only to find a six to seven percent tip. We love it when you are nice to us, but it doesn't make up for a bad tip.
8. Servers believe in Karma
If you're good to us then we will think happy thoughts for you all night. If you're bad to us we'll curse the day you were sat in our section. Treat your server as if he/she was your favorite child. Be patient, forgiving, and generous.

This is already getting too long so I'm going to wrap this up with a list of things to keep in mind when decided how much to tip. (Please remember that you should start at 15 percent and go up if these things are good. Not start at 15 percent and go down if they are bad.)

* The amount of your bill.
* The quality of service.
* Effort required to serve you. (lots of refills, and extra things etc...)
* Time spend at the table. (Time is money.)
* The amount of people at the table. (Kids meals are cheaper, but don't require any less effort to serve. They also take up just as many seats as rich adults.)
*It is never acceptable to stiff your server.

If you actually made it through this one servers everywhere thank you!

-Travis Cox_

Thursday, December 17, 2009

New Life, New Ideas, and almost a New Year!

Attention fellow Bloggers!

I apologize that my blog has been down for so long. This past semester was, to say the least, an interesting one. But school has finally ended and I will definitely be blogging much more frequently!

I love the feeling of being done with a semester. To be able to pull up this blog and not have to worry about getting homework done or anything like that! It's fantastic. Freedom. Haha.

In other news I'm thinking about starting some other blogs as well. I was recently cast in Dixie State College's production of 'Macbeth' and I'm dreadfully nervous. But I'm also very motivated to get into shape for the production. And although I know that nobody wants to see me with my shirt off I thought it might be cool to document my transformation into sexiness photographically. (Plus it would provide me with some much needed additional motivation.) I'll keep you posted on whether or not I decide to go through with it.

And secondly, if I decide that I can afford it, I want to make a blog dedicated to entering all of those sweepstakes we find on the wrappers of candy bars and soda pops, and then documenting and reporting on the results.

So anyway, this blog will continue to be my priority bringing you random bits of info from wherever I decide to find it.

Thanks for reading.